DKITYTI: Applied kinesiology and allergy testing

Canapes in UK

I wrote this post a few months ago in Ubud but never got round to publishing it. It, and its conclusion next week, will be the last of the “Don’t knock it til you’ve tried it” series, at least for the time being.

My trip to the applied kinesiologist inspired a rage inside that surprised me. I felt furious, and I couldn’t say for sure why. Was it because he gave me a diagnosis I didn’t want to hear? Or was it because I was mad at him for giving me a prescription based on something so seemingly ludicrous?

If I knew for sure that applied kinesiology (AK) was a quack job then the latter would be easy to go with, but I don’t know that so I’m left with a lingering “what if?”. What if there is something to what he said? Read more

Posted on December 9, 2013 by Victoria in Bali, Destinations, Don't knock it til you've tried it, Thoughts 10 Comments

Laura Morgan: Live the life you want to, not the life you think you should


At the top of this page under the title, we have the words “Live the life you want to, not the life you think you should”. It’s a sentiment we try to embody, and one that seems to resonate with lots of people. When some fellow and favourite writers started asking if we accepted guest posts, we initially weren’t sure how to approach it. We wanted to feature their writing, but how best to do it? We found our answer in the strapline. So here begins the first of our guest post series where talented writers respond to our mantra: “Live the life you want to, not the life you think you should”. We hope you enjoy it. Read more

Posted on December 5, 2013 by Victoria in Live the life you want to, Thoughts 11 Comments

Where is home?

Victoria walking in Devon

“Where’s home for you now?” said Olly as we strolled along the South Bank, catching up on almost 20 month’s absence on a path we’ve walked countless times before.

It’s one of my favourite places in London, the walk from London Bridge to Waterloo along the river, past Borough Market, St.Paul’s, the Tate, the theatres and with Big Ben glowing in the distance.

When I was at university, riding the bus across the river at night filled me with awe at the magnificence of the city and the millions of lives that breathed within it. I was one of those lives. I called the city home for ten years and it still holds a house in my name and is the city I know the best. It’s where I chose to step out alone and build my own life. I love it, but would I call it home? Read more

Posted on December 2, 2013 by Victoria in Thoughts, UK 22 Comments

These are a few of our favourite things

A few of our favourite things

This post of favourite things comes to you from Devon. Yes, we have made it back to the UK and we busy getting cosy in the countryside. Lots more on that coming soon – so much to tell you all – but for now, here are our favourite things from November. It’s a bit of a bumper edition. We’re considering making it fortnightly instead. Be sure to let us know if that sounds like a great/terrible idea. Thank you and have a wonderful December. V and S x  Read more

Posted on November 26, 2013 by Victoria in Favourite things 18 Comments

At home in a village above the clouds

Victoria and Balinese grandmother

Last week, we told you about a special place to stay in Bali’s central highlands, a village suspended in the island’s quieter days before the tourism boom. The Village Above the Clouds is one of the most peaceful places we’ve ever stayed. As we said in our last post, it’s a place where you feel like you’re a guest of the village not just the hotel, and that point was made clear when a group of sisters invited us into her home. Read more

Posted on November 20, 2013 by Victoria in Bali, Destinations, Photo stories 15 Comments

Village Above the Clouds, Bali

Village above the clouds bed

As soon as I saw the Village Above the Clouds website, I knew we had to go there. I’d found it while searching for eco-hotels in Bali and it was the most charming and visually stunning one I came across. A few weeks later, I chanced across the owner at one of the many workshops I’ve been to in Ubud and he told me some more about the village where the hotel sits, and the school he’d started there. It was the obvious choice for our road trip away from Ubud, and I couldn’t wait to see it for myself. Read more

Posted on November 12, 2013 by Victoria in Bali, Destinations, Photo stories 18 Comments